….Although Catholicism was, he says, “literally a foreign religion to me,” he was impressed by some Catholic friends and an uncle by marriage who was a great husband, father, and person. He also found much to admire and learn from in the writing of famous Catholic thinkers. And so Vance began to explore Catholicism. A brilliant young Dominican priest, Father Henry Stephan, became his spiritual guide. Vance writes about how Father Henry explained the Catholic understanding in a way that he found convincing:

For most of us, grace is not something that happens in a moment. You don’t feel God’s presence and then change in an instant. Real grace comes through practice. This is why we demand that you live a sacramental life: going to church, taking Communion, doing confession. This is a process. You don’t accept Jesus into your heart — or get baptized — and fix everything. That’s not the promise of the Church. The promise of the Church is that you are lost, and the Church will provide you a road map to God….

From Robert George in the Free Press