It wasn’t long into my study of the sex abuse crisis in the Church that I realized that many or even most bishops customarily respond to a report about abuse 1) by feeling sorry for themselves that they have another mess on their hands; 2) by feeling sorry for the priest whose priesthood may be ruined; and 3) by trying to figure out how to get the victim to remain silent and go away. There is rarely, if ever, any true concern shown for the victim; sometimes counseling is offered but more often as a way to appease than to help the victim.
It can take decades for a victim even to begin to seek justice for the abuser. And most often it is done out of a concern to prevent the abuser from continuing to abuse. Victims long to put the abuse “behind them” (as much as that might be possible) and get on with their lives. They also need to face being triggered by reports of abuse similar to theirs and sometimes need to deal with reemergence in the news of their own case.
One such victim is Rachel Mastrogiacomo, who suffered devastating life consequences because of Satanic Ritual Sexual Abuse by former priest Jacob Bertrand of the diocese of San Diego. Bertrand ultimately confessed to abusing Mastrogiacomo and was convicted of ritual rape. The judge was very hesitant to consent to the “no jail time” agreement, but because Rachel became aware that some false narratives of the abuse would be introduced into trial she consented to extended probation for Bertrand. Bertrand’s admission of guilt became her priority.
Recently, Rachel learned that Bertrand, despite being a registered predatory offender, is a part of a Bible study in an evangelical church where he has contact with vulnerable individuals. That, of course, has terribly shaken her and has led her to consider what more she must do to protect the vulnerable. Clearly, the diocese of San Diego is not monitoring Bertrand for who knows what reason—indifference to abuse? Fear that Bertrand could expose more of the corruption in the diocese if he is reined in? I don’t know the reason, but can there be any good reason? Sadly, the least objectionable explanation would be neglect; but it would be criminal neglect.
What triggers Rachel now and provokes re-victimization is the promotion of Bishop McElroy from San Diego to the cardinalate, for he failed to act when she reported Bertrand to the diocese and is failing to protect the vulnerable from Bertrand.
Retelling Rachel’s full story would require a book. A rather full accounting of the abuse she experienced (although some of the most disturbing details are omitted) is available in an article on Crux. It is a must-read.
Here, I am interviewing Rachel about the absurdly difficult steps she needed to take to get some modicum of justice regarding her abuse, about the ongoing trauma she experiences from the mishandling of her case, and about the failure of the diocese to monitor convicted ex-priest Jacob Bertrand.
The story makes quite inexplicable the appointment of McElroy to the cardinalate for a Church that claims to care about victims….
The above comes from a much longer June 13 posting by moral theologian Janet Smith in Crisis magazine.
If M ” goes to Boston”, the Boston papers will never let go of this and sink him on the maiden voyage. They will not accept another abuse- ignorer.the damage to the Church there was too great
It seems that it was under McElroy and not his predecessor that this priest became an ex-priest. Perhaps he did a better job at protecting potential victims than Rachel gives him credit for.
McElroy knew about the abuse for years before defrocking Jacob Bertrand. It was only after court proceedings had begun and McElroy knew that the prosecutor had the evidence to convict (i.e., a confession to another priest who was willing to talk) that the evil bishop acted to defrock. If you can’t do the right thing before the media circus begins years later, then you probably had no intention to do the right thing absent massive amounts of pressure.
Of course, this is par for the course with McElroy, who had written evidence of McCarrick’s crimes and did absolutely nothing. Bishop McElroy also voted against most bishops and against transparency in abuse investigations. Unfortunately, McElroy’s coverup and refusal to defrock Bertrand for his abuse until the media spotlight hit is his standard approach to abuse when nobody is holding his feet to the fire… which is why the laity need to hammer their bishops over abuse.
I disagree with the title of this article because McElroy’s elevation is explainable.
McElroy’s red hat means that Francis considers ideology to be more important than either people or God. It says something very serious about who Francis is.
I understand her pain about this, but once a Priest is laicized, the Diocese washes their hands of him.
They will say that it is not their job to keep track of “lay people” who have a criminal record.
I have seen it in my Diocese.
Then why the f do I have to take the stupid Virtus training every quarter?
How did this Satanic man ever get accepted into a seminary? Satanic rapists like Jacob Bertrand ought to be locked up for good. I was asked today, to attend a Rosary Reparation outside St. Agnes Church in SF, next Sun. June 19th, as the Jesuits and their LGBT parishioners there, are having a big Pride Mass at the 10:30am Mass. Why doesn’t Abp. Cordileone put a stop to them, instead?
Well, many of my comments are edited, especially for punctuation reasons. I don’t always complain about this. But anyway, in regards to my above comment of June 13 at 3:58pm– one of the sentences should read: “I was asked today, to attend a Rally and a Rosary of Reparation.. ” I have never believed in “protests” and related activities. But to quietly pray the Rosary in a nice, respectful Catholic group, and be kind to others, while standing up for Christ’s teachings, yes, that’s a good thing! If it’s not respectful, I will not go. Actually– the Archbishop should end these kinds of abuses at Mass, and teach Catholics and others how to live Christ’s teachings correctly. I always stay home during the “Pride” activities, because it’s so wrong and so horrible. So– I may actually not attend this Rally and Rosary…. just pray on-my-own, and go to Mass. Where are you, Abp. Cordileone??
Because gay is untouchable
This is the woman who wrote her goddaughter a doctoral thesis explaining why she wouldn’t attend her civil marriage ceremony.
Dear This is the woman,
Are you attacking the victim, or am I misreading your post?
It is the duty of a godmother to stand fast in Christ as a model to the goddaughter. Presumably this means standing on principles. It seems you have trouble with standing on principles, along with many others in the Church, given your needless sarcasm.
And Dr. Smith made the letter public, embarrassing her goddaughter.
Ahh. Jacob Bertrand. As I recall one of his quips when he was a seminarian: “If one more woman says I’m too good-looking to be a priest, I’ll scream”. Really? That pompous twit. Everyone around him knew him. He was emitting disturbing signals, yet those were overlooked and he was ordained under McElroy’s watch. Fast forward to Rome. He preyed on a vulnerable and, I have to say, a pietistic young woman, who was reeled in by his divine charm and self-described good looks. Yes, now he’s married with children and still pontificates on his social media pages. He got away with it all.
The creation of Cardinal McElroy is a slap across the face of Archbishop Gomez and Cordileone, not just those faithful molested in San Diego. Cardinals Cupich, Ferrell, and McElroy will now propagate the evils of Cardinals Bernardin, McCarrick and Mahoney. Ours is a gay, gay, gay Church. To top it off, Pope Francis is smothering the Latin Mass as his most important religious initiative as the world emerges from Covid-19. Thank God for our remaining faithful priests, Father Illo in San Francisco comes to mind.
Correction: it was Vatican II, not Pope Francis, that said the 1962 Missal was to be reformed.
Yes, but have you read Sacrosanctum Concilium, the Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy?
Latin still has pride of place, ad orientem was not changed, etc.
We can only really seriously discuss the Second Vatican Council after reading the documents.
Words like “triggered” and “revictimized” are no better when used by “conservatives”. This author used to be clear-thinking. Now she’s just agenda-driven and trying to stay relevant.
Okay everyone needs to click on the link to the Crux article and skip to about halfway through then read about Rachel’s experiences in Rome. Clearly, any emotionally and psychologically healthy person would have seed red flags all over the place and avoided the priests she fell in with before any abuse occurred. Sometimes you can blame the victim. I mean, a priest removes his clothes to celebrate a private Mass naked at your home and requests that you also get naked for purposes of “spiritual union” and you don’t see that as a major red flag? You trust that weirdo, sicko priest? Any mentally healthy person would have told the priest to put his clothes on and get the heck out, and she should have broken off all contact after that experience. Then she was raped during Mass and had the priest back for another private Mass where it happened again? Sorry. She was an adult and bears blame for allowing herself to be taken advantage of. Clergy abuse is a problem, but naive adults can be a problem too.
Wow. Yes, she was an adult. An adult who was probably slowly psychologically abused by the perpetrator long before the sexual incidents. That is the true meaning of grooming. I don’t think McElroy should have been denied a red hat because her prior bishop did not remove the rapist from the priesthood, but I don’t think she should be blamed for the horrible abuse she suffered.
The story makes clear she had second thoughts about what you refer to as “grooming” incidents during counseling, but she went along with the priests’ requests against her better judgment and against her gut feelings and got sucked in deeper. She should have known better. I do blame her, in part. Victims are not always innocent. It takes two to tango.
Oh, so an adult woman is not to be held responsible for her choices, her groomer is to blame, but a six-year old is mature enough to be able to decide whether he’s a boy or a girl, and trans-groomers have nothing to do with it.
Six year olds go through phases all the time, and if you understand what zooming means, you realize they are not being groomed by trans people. FYI, most of the drag queens who do the story time are not trans, they are gay men who cross dress occasionally for fun and service to their community. It would be like saying that clowns groom kids to have big feet.
Yes, and Rachel went on to marry an ex-priest. She has a type.
Oh brother. It’s not Fr. Thomas Williams, Legionary of Christ is it?
And she said she and her husband have children, too. How are their children affected by this very serious, dangerous, demonic stuff?
This woman was a 24 year old Catholic theology major and grad student but couldn’t figure out what was going on. Maria Goretti was an 11 year old illiterate peasant and could.
I agree, Hymie. How did this young woman ever become a theology major, with no recognition of sin? Little Maria Goretti fought off the evil advances of the neighbor boy, Alessandro, who next,vengefully killed her– and she also warned him of the severe dangers of eternal loss of his soul to the Devil.
Many public figures who are secular and religious leaders, as well as big stars in the entertainment world, have a strong charisma, and are experienced in wielding power to their advantage, over people, unscrupulously. There have been many historical cases, of these types of powerful, charismatic, unscrupulous men, who have almost hypnotically swooned and seduced women. Perhaps these unscrupulous men have also been under a Satanic influence– and Satan has led victims to them, to tragically destroy their souls. Hypnotized and swooned by this powerful Satanic charisma, a victim would perhaps lose their normal reasoning powers, including recognition of right and wrong, good and evil– and guilt for sin. What a horrible thing!
In general what the Church lacks is moral clarity and direction from on high.Many parishes have this pride welcoming going on,includiing mine in San Diego.If we are inviting sinners that wish to repent that is wounderful.If we are saying we accept you and your life style that is not acceptable and those in charge,(priests,bishops,and the pope) need to make clear in an unambigious manner what they are accepting and what they want us to accept.This is how we can seperate the sheep from the wolves.
Just in time for Pride month, OCP has released a song, “You Are Welcome Here”.
https://youtu.be/0Nb19IpnAs4
“You are welcome here, come as you are.”
The song doesn’t mention God or Christ or faith once.
Burn any OCP hymnals.
Thanks for sharing this. I’d not have known if you hadn’t posted.
It’s not your job to separate the sheep from the wolves, is it?
They separate themselves, and we just notice who’s who.
Yes, it is John Conca’s job, and the job of every Catholic who wants to be faithful. The Bible, the catechisms and most prayerbooks clearly tell us to stay away from people who lead us into serious sin, no matter who they are-secular or religious, layperson, priest or bishop, sisters or nuns. I doubt there is a person on the face of the earth who has not been attracted to someone to whom they should not be. We must avoid near occasions of sin. The saying, “We cannot help whom we love,” is nonsense. We can and must avoid temptations with the help of God.
But, we don’t have to invite the wolves to our dinner tables.
In spite of what some animal rights activists might claim, in Biblical stories wolves and goats are not good guys.
This is yet another example of yellow journalism by CCD and an ad hominem attack on Bishop McElroy. Let’s be clear, this incident of sick sexual abuse occurred in 2009 and 2010. Bishop McElroy was appointed the Bishop of San Diego in 2015. He was not supervising the priest involved. Additionally, a laicized priest is not accountable to a Bishop. Dioceses do not have their own police or probation officers to monitor these sex offenders.
It isn’t the CCD, it’s Crux. And the part where in 2016 the diocese of San Diego refusing to cooperate with prosecutors wasn’t clear?
… Bertrand was still a priest when McElroy was bishop, and this bishop knew full well what Bertrand was up to.
Well, I read the full story. This poor girl really needed guidance. She got her degree in theology at Franciscan U. of Steubenville, then enrolled in the Angelicum in Rome, for grad school. But she sounded more like a brainless, easily-duped drop-out; no strong critical or analytical thinking skills, no heavy academic background typical of grad students in her field, and no proper social skills in society, at all. She gravitated to some sleazy, very dangerous, demented, perverted misfits, who were priests and seminarians at the prestigious NAC (North American College) in Rome. They should have been reported to authorities, and kicked out. Bertrand was then a deacon, soon to be ordained as a priest. These extremely deviant, diabolical clerics began to entice and con this girl into fake Catholic mysticism– and it all got worse and worse. Several of these clerics were her spiritual directors. The Catholic Church needs a thorough house-cleaning and good discipline.
My post of June 15 at 3:20am was edited. I will add that all of the clerics that this girl got involved with, were sleazy, corrupt, filthy “con artists,” conning the girl into sex, with extremely sacrilegious, fake Catholic perverted mysticism beliefs and practices. And she easily fell for it all.
Spirituality is so airy-fairy that anybody can say anything and someone will be duped into believing it.
This story from a San Diego secular newspaper has details that Crux and Dr. Smith left out. It confirms what another poster said that Rachel married an ex-priest; skip to the final few paragraphs. In fact, she married one of the other priests she had met in Rome.
https://www.sandiegouniontribune.com/news/religion/sd-me-adult-abuse-20180801-story.html
Sounds like everyone in this story has psychological problems. The church seems to attract such people to work in ministry.
Perhaps what the “vulnerable adults” who have become victims to dangerous clergy sex criminals need greatly, is the cultivation of a strong, clear mind– and a clear understanding of morality, of right and wrong. The 11-year-old, uneducated Italian peasant girl, St. Maria Goretti, seemed to have a sharp, clear mind, clear understanding of her Catholic faith and morality, and sternly rebuked the teen-age boy trying to con her into sex. Maria was brutally killed, for sternly standing up for purity, for what is right. She had a mature mind.
Well, this isn’t going the way the author, Janet Smith, hoped, it seems. Maybe the lesson is you should carefully vet the people you want to hold up as martyrs.
Many of the commenters here have no understanding of the psychological process of grooming. The predators are subtle and sneaky, and they work on their victims and the people around them for quite a while before they make their move. There are now numerous stories about how people do this. You all should really educate yourselves on the subject before you pontificate on it. You are really not serving the Church with these kinds of comments. The comparison with Maria Goretti is particularly inapt. Her attacker, well, attacked her. There was nothing subtle about what he did.
Did it ever occur to you that Mrs. Mastrogiacomo might read your comments? Or that other victims might read these comments? That some of these comments display the very sorts of reactions that make victims fearful about coming forward with their stories?
I’ve seen this pattern before. The laity defend the priest, not his victims, even when the priest has confessed!!! I did an interview with a young man whose brother was molested by their parish priest. That man’s actions harmed the entire family. And the Catholics in their immediate community did not support them. Some of them even gave a going away party for the priest when he went to jail after confession! https://youtu.be/6JwLvB0X3Uk
Jacob Bertrand, the “priest” is a criminal (coercion to rape) and amoral. Not one person has defended him on here. Mrs. Mastrogiacomo was used and abused by him and I’m glad she went public. We are also allowed to ask why she was drawn to Seminarians in Rome in the first place, and why she then went on to marry an ex-priest. I think it demonstrates unstable behavior, both before and after her ordeal.
Yeah and note from the article from the other poster that the guy she married was the priest she first confided in about this Bertrand guy. He was a trusted priest and was only laicized four months before they got married. So they must have been dating and the old spiel “I’ll leave the priesthood for you” while that guy was still a priest, in the context of him providing spiritual advice regarding the Bertrand situation. Gross.
https://www.sandiegouniontribune.com/news/religion/sd-me-adult-abuse-20180801-story.html
Yes. She didn’t get the message that priests are like married men — off limits.
While in Rome, she purposefully placed herself close to seminarians, with some weaker candidates being enticed by her. She could also be accused of luring her current husband away from the priesthood (his parents were devastated, by the way). Jacob Bertrand’s perversions aside, she somehow seems passive/aggressive in her religiosity. Again, she can be both a victim and an accomplice.
It is the responsibility of the priest to never be sexual with anyone.
It is everyone’s responsibility to not be sexual with anyone we are not married to, but because of his vows to God, the priest bears the greater responsibility.
https://www.instagram.com/jacob.sdrealestate/
He is married with kids and works as a realtor now, totally got away with it
The real shame is that he seems to have got away with it. He never went to jail, he may have been laicized but he is still an officiant for weddings in San Diego advertising himself as “father Bertrand”, and he seems to have a happy life as a successful realtor running a music business, Bertrand’s Music Enterprises, he has a beautiful wife and two babies. Oh and posting all of this on social media. He has ruined a girls life meanwhile he gets his happily ever after. Divine justice in this case https://www.instagram.com/jacob.sdrealestate/