Thieves. Tax collectors. Prostitutes. Vagrants. Thugs.
Jesus engaged with these people, and many more like them. He listened, comforted and challenged them as, like all of us, imperfect, fallible human beings. Opening his heart to each individual’s experience, he met them where they were.
For more than two millennia, this willingness to engage, love and pray for all visitors, particularly those less fortunate, has remained a core tenant of hospitality.
“Bishop Vann launched the Diocese’s Strategic Plan after our 40th anniversary,” says Sr. Katherine (Kit) Gray, Christ Cathedral’s director of Mission Integration and Ongoing Formation. “His intention is that the Diocese flourish into the future. This plan has a number of key priorities. One of those is evangelization.
“Pope Francis says that evangelization begins with attraction,” Sr. Kit continues. “How do I reach out to you? How do we connect? How do we find something in common? Hospitality is closely connected to evangelization.”
Sts. Simon and Jude serves as a wonderful example of hospitality in action. While adhering to Bishop Vann’s key priorities, the Huntington Beach-based parish emphasizes four of its own: “gospel, Eucharist, stewardship and hospitality,” Purcell says. “And not necessarily in that order.”
The Very Rev. Christopher Smith, Christ Cathedral’s rector and episcopal vicar, says. “What we call our ‘Sunday experience’ is very much based on the hospitality of the community to which the people are coming. Let’s say somebody not in our community arrives, and someone comes up and says, ‘You know, I don’t think I’ve seen you before. Welcome. My name is Father Christopher,’ or whatever his or her name might be. That can really make a difference.”
How can a parish re-emphasize hospitality as a top priority? Purcell notes that it starts with its vision statement. “Other parishes should have [one] that outlines the importance of hospitality at its core. And as a first step, the parish’s ministers need to be taught this, and so do each and every person in the parish. … Every church is His church, and we’re a part of it. It’s always about smiling, always welcoming others.”
“If you look at the heart of the liturgy, you’re talking about gathering people around a table,” says Rev. Daniel Barica, pastor of Sts. Simon and Jude. “We honor that when people first step on the property. We want them to feel welcome, from the parking lot to the end of Mass, and it extends later, when we have them come into our plaza to continue that fellowship.”
Here’s a change parishes can consider: “Announcements are usually done after Communion,” Purcell says. “However, after we greet one another, we share parish news: ministry updates and upcoming events, for example. At this time, we occasionally have a guest speaker who shares for two minutes about a recent event or an earlier experience. For example, we’ve had someone talk about an upcoming men’s retreat.”
The advantage of having announcements before the service, Purcell notes, is that after Mass, visitors tend to think more about leaving the parish and getting on with their day. They may not really pay attention to what’s going on at their parish. The result: Community engagement may be compromised.
Several times a year, those newly registered are invited to have lunch and tour the parish. Rev. Daniel meets them after the final morning Mass, and a Hospitality Committee serves them lunch. “While they’re eating lunch, we highlight what’s going on with our programs and refer them to our bulletin,” he says. “We send them home with a bottle of wine, to let them know that we’re glad they chose to come and be a part of our community.”
Full story at Orange County Catholic.
This is what the church has come to? Sheesh. It’s being run like a HOA.
OMG I think HOAs are the third rung of the Inferno, right?
Caption to photo refers to St Thomas More. Yet the rest of the article refers to Sts Simon and Jude. This is very unclear.
Nice to see what appear to be mostly younger people in the photo.
This is an awful message. The Mass does not represent “people around a table” but is a re-enactment of the sacrifice of Calvary, and only that. And, no, Jesus did not meet people “where they were at,” if that means accepting what they did. He went to Mankind and said, you are doomed for eternity unless you follow me: “Go and Sin no more,” summarizes the mercy of Jesus.
It makes sense for a parish to connect to parishioners on a human level but ultimately, a parish must introduce the cross and discipleship. A faithful Catholic parish is not simply about social fun, but ultimately about a daily, living relationship with Christ. And that means discipleship and the necessary tension of encountering the old self and walking with the new self through grace. The cross cannot be ignored. I am surprised by the wine bottle. What about giving a bible and a rosary. One must read God’s Word and then pray in the Spirit. Unconsecrated wine will not lead you to heaven.
Jim I think you make a terrific point. Perhaps the assumption is that parishoners have already chosen the way of discipleship? If, after all, the encounter with those in the pews isn’t one of joyful dependence on the mercy of God, we might as well be a bank that gives a toaster for opening a savings account.
“gospel, Eucharist, stewardship and hospitality,” Purcell says. “And not necessarily in that order.”
“… hospitality as a top priority”. Sister “Kit” — so cozy… And, in charge of formation?
Sacrifice of the Mass and Christ — where do they rank?
This is so sad. All this is happening in the Diocese of the Religious Ed Conference.
Let us pray.
Lord, I ask you to convert the priests and religious to your true teachings.
Please convert their hearts to Catholicism and lead their flocks to You.
Amen.
It is fine to try to help people out of the sinful state there are in, but do not be a victim. There have been purses and wallets with passports stolen, cars broken into and even the trunks jimmied open right in churches and church parking lots. So take your purses up to Communion, keep your cars locked and any valuables hidden, and do not let people you do not trust see you put anything in the trunk of your car. Best to keep laptops at home.
Regarding my last post, I must say that there are a lot of honest people in the church too, Items my family or I have left in the pews have been returned to us, and we have often turned in or given to people items that they have lost. Most people do not break into cars either.
I dissent! For the love of God, do you not see his work being done here? Do you not see a parish welcoming people to the Mass? A parish is a community of believers. Communities welcome members and new members. “Welcome to our parish. How are you today?” is a bad thing? Having regular welcome lunches is a bad thing? Making parish activities and programs welcoming is a bad thing? Methinks too many of the commenters don’t understand “parish.” A parish is a community of believers. Most of them have built a building in which to hold the liturgy. You can adore Christ anywhere, but you come to the liturgy to be in communion with fellow parishioners.
In other words, “Christ ye always have with you but the poor ye have not always.” I think that’s Matthew played backwards . . . as some are wont to do.
No church should give out any form of alcohol. Is it a party place or a place of worship? This related story about the same huntington church popped up on my screen. If this place is so welcoming why are these coments part of a bullying story?
http://dianedoughertysblog.blogspot.com/p/are-catholic-hierarchs-bullies.html