The following comes from a Nov. 7 story on Yahoo News.

In front of all their friends and their 10-year-old son, Clark and Valerie Tate came together for a special ceremony on a California beach.

But this couple wasn’t renewing their vows. They were “uncoupling.”

In a new age ritual that might only be found in San Francisco, Clark and Valerie took the wedding rings they exchanged 14 years ago and gave them back to each other.

“These rings do not symbolize who we are to each other anymore,” Clark said.

“So we’re releasing them,” Valerie added.

They no longer consider each other husband and wife, not even romantic partners, but they have decided to continue living together in the same house in order to raise their son Jonah together.

In other words, it might be the most amicable divorce-non-divorce in history.

“We grieved a lot of our relationship so long ago, this is just sort of marking the time,” Valerie said.

Divorce often gets ugly and expensive. Even actress Gwyneth Paltrow and Coldplay frontman Chris Martin decided to “consciously uncouple” earlier this year.

The Tates, who went with their own version of “uncoupling,” believed this was a way to break up their marriage without animosity, but it required an unconventional approach — Clark and Valerie still live together in the same house, with separate bedrooms, and maintain joint assets, but have an open marriage, meaning they date other people.

“We started talking about the possibility of dating other people,” Valerie said.

“I remember hearing it, initially being shocked,” Clark added, “And then being like, well, that sounds interesting to me, too.”

Their relationship wasn’t always like this. Valerie said their wedding was “magical” with “so much love, so much beauty.” It was her first time walking down the aisle. It was Clark’s third. For the first few years, the couple said they were living in love, but then they said the spark, the intimacy started to fade.

Eventually they said their marriage started failing, but unlike about 50 percent of couples in the United States, divorce was never on the table for them.

“I’ve been through that road before, and I knew the other side of it. I knew that wasn’t exactly what I wanted,” Clark said.

“We weren’t considering really changing the structure of our family unit,” Valerie added.

That family unit centered around their son, who they were determined to protect from their relationship failings….

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