The challenge for any “women’s movement” is to represent all women, and that’s the problem with today’s “A Day Without Women.” Not only does it ignore women who don’t support abortion, but it glosses over the experience of millions of women in the developing world who can’t afford to postpone their responsibilities.
I’m one of those people who likes to read a book before seeing the movie based on the book, so over the past few weeks, I read Hidden Figures, by Margot Lee Shatterly, an inspiring account of the black women mathematicians who had key roles at NASA during the Space Race. I capped my reading by seeing the movie, currently in theaters, just two nights ago.
The contrast between the trailblazing women mathematicians chronicled in Hidden Figures and the women leading today’s protest, A Day Without Women, leaves me stunned. For generations, even centuries, women have sought equality in all aspects of life. Women in the U.S., where the present protest originates, enjoy rights and opportunities of which women in many parts of the world can scarcely dream.
It seems paradoxical, not to mention confusing, that women would absent themselves from paid work when it’s only recently in human history that so many of us can enjoy these opportunities.
In reality, many women, even in our developed countries, work because they have to, not because they want to. They won’t be among the elites who can afford to demonstrate in this way.
And then there are the women who are primary caregivers. They too are encouraged to join in the protest as “unpaid workers.” Really? They’d better hope that the women (and men) at Child Protective Services don’t go to work either since they could be charged with serious neglect for abandoning their responsibilities as a primary caregiver.
Further, to suggest that these women “not show up” for their work underscores just how poorly the modern feminist movement regards the work that they do in their families.
As women, we have specific responsibilities whatever our states in life. Now we’re being asked to cast them aside, no matter how hard we’ve fought for them.
This sends a conflicting message. The organizers of this protest are saying to the world that women can’t be counted upon. They’re telling our male colleagues (paid and unpaid) that women won’t have their backs on this one day. In many ways, they’re reinforcing what I had hoped were unfair stereotypes.
I can’t even begin to imagine the women mathematicians from Hidden Figures deciding to stay home. They worked hard and made many sacrifices. In fact, they saw themselves advancing the cause of black Americans by showing up and doing work that most Americans, regardless of skin color or sex, couldn’t do. Not showing up for the job wasn’t part of the equation.
There’s more to this protest. For some, it’s a way to signal grievances against the current U.S. President, even though women voted for him. For others, it’s a slightly veiled demonstration to support abortion. All of these women have the right to express themselves and to protest.
But they don’t represent all women, and that’s the challenge for any women’s movement. It has to be diverse enough to include most women. That’s where this protest fails miserably.
One of only two premier supporters of the Women’s March entity which organized today’s protest is Planned Parenthood, the largest single abortion provider in the U.S. Other partners include EMILY’s List and NARAL Pro-Choice America Foundation. Not one pro-life group is included. And the March for Women clearly demonstrated that women were not welcome if they did not bow, or at least nod, to the god of abortion.
Women like myself who see abortion as a moral, not a legal, issue, won’t be represented. In fact, a recent poll found that 77 percent of all U.S. women think that there should be some restrictions on abortion and 59 percent think that abortion is morally wrong.
On this key issue alone, the numbers indicate that there’s no way that this so-called women’s movement is representative of even a slight majority of women.
But let’s move on to all the other women who won’t be there. There are the obvious millions of women who have been aborted. Look to China and India where sex-selective abortions and female infanticide have left a world with millions more men than women.
Then there are women and girls in developing countries who can’t go to work or school because they cannot afford sanitary products. I’m willing to bet, however, that they have access to contraceptives. From my time working in D.C., I recall meeting with experts who visited USAID-supported clinics that were overflowing with contraceptives, but lacked basic medical supplies.
And there are women in countries where they cannot vote or speak for themselves, much less work, study, or make decisions for their families. These are women who would probably consider the ability to shirk one’s responsibilities a luxury.
While the event supports trans women, that means it won’t be representing women who think that being a woman is more than hormones, implants, cosmetics, and a decision or experience about one’s sexuality.
Today, I’m proudly at work, serving in a job that I love, fulfilling a role that until relatively recently few lay people, women or men, were able to enjoy. It’s not exactly NASA during the Space Race, but I’m nevertheless proud of my accomplishment.
Moreover, as I’ve surveyed history and known many remarkable women, one thing I’ve learned is that #RealWomenDontQuit.
Pia de Solenni is a professor of moral theology for the Augustine Institute and serves as a consultant to the Office of the Bishop of Orange.
Full story at Orange County Catholic
And it was my understanding that it was all headed by men! How’s that work for the women libbers?
I’m with Her! Thank you Dr. de Solenni, for making the case. God Bless!
Irrespective of ‘reproductive’ related issues, what’s wrong with equal pay for equal work? I’ve read women make less than 90 cents on the dollar for identical work. What is just about that?
The difference, in part, may have to do with different levels of work experience. The truth is that different men also get paid differently for different levels of work experience.
mikem..I think the diferential is greater that. Somewhere into the high 70″s
Steve: My mother has almost 40 years in a number if different jobs in her agency. She has bailed them of a million times The men at the same level of job skill and complexity all make more. I know you want to believe women get equal pay but they just don’t. I say “they” because I own a small business and at least in my case I don’t think people select another caterer just because he’s a man. Every woman can’t be an euntrupaner.
C&H,
It looks like we have diametrically opposed experiences. I’ve been working for 30 years and the only place that I’ve seen where there may have been a pay differential for the same work and experience was at my first job where no one knew what anyone else made. The boss was an entrepreneur. Other than small entrepreneurial businesses, where have you seen a pay discrepancy?
Yes, if they work for Hillary, they are paid less than men.
The women in my family, wife, children, grandchildren, walked in the Women’s March in our town. Why? The abortion issue aside, and I know that is a big aside, they marched out of fear of losing the hard earned rights that women have had for so short a time. I remember when women could not have a credit card in their name, when they couldn’t buy a car without their husband’s signature, couldn’t get a “man’s job”, (except in WWII) were expected to be teachers until married, or nurses, had to give up jobs if they got pregnant, and the list goes on. Millions of women are very worried about losing those rights based on the behavior of our current president during the campaign, and the people with whom he surrounds himself in office…
Bob One,
Bill Clinton treated women far worse than Mr. Trump. Did Clinton take away their rights?
Our current president not only hired by also promoted women in his company to the highest levels of management and paid them the same salaries as men. Unlike Hillary Clinton who paid her female staff less than her male staff. And as far as putting “aside” “the abortion issue”, what is more important to you than life itself. Baby girls who lost their lives in abortion will never have a chance to do ANYTHING, not a single thing you are mentioning, because if your life is taken from you, all the other rights don’t have any meaning at all.
So relax, our President is not the boogey man they want you to think he is. And put your priorities in order.
Bob One – your womenfolk are obviously as hoodwinked as you are. That March was ALL ABOUT abortion, make no mistake, and any other issue was a very distant second place. Go ahead and look at the women surrounding President Trump, all accomplished in their own right. Your women are afraid of they will encourage the ways of the past? Grow up Bobby, these left wing parades are anti-woman and you need to man up and tell this to your family. You are the spiritual head of your family, drop your fear and show some leadership.
I can remember when credit cards came out (like the Bankamericard). It was used by both my mother and father. Before that my mother had what was called a “Chargaplate, that allowed her to charge at various places like Macy’s and the Emporiuim. I don’t know whose name was on it but she used it, not my dad. I don’t know who signed for the family car but my mom was the primary driver–my dad took the train to work. Back in those days, a couple was an entity. Perhaps that’s not a good thing, but I think figures will show there were fewer divorces.
People with an agenda are rewriting history. Woman as caretaker of the family is derided and what has that done for our families?
” Millions of women are very worried about losing those rights based on the behavior of our current president during the campaign, ” Quote me chapter and verse where Trump said he would rescind these rights, this is leftist fear mongering backed by Soros money. The women in your family marched with evil pro abortion excuses for women, if that does not concern you then you check Catholicism at the door and leave You keep denying being a leftist but the more you say the more you prove me right
Good narrative, “women losing their rights, cant get a job, can’t buy a car, can only be teachers or nurses.” Oh, and you slipped in that abortion thing. Are they still being forced to use coat-hangers in the back alley, Bob O? I haven’t checked our back alleys lately.
I still think you missed a few of the DNC talking points, eg. “glass ceiling”, price differential when buying a car, greater cost of health insurance for women vs. men, ad nauseam. You have got to hit all the DNC sock-puppet talking points, Bob One. And raise your fist in the air, the salute that started with the Communist Party in Europe in the 1920’s: they were really big into “women’s rights” for the workers’ paradise.
If employers can’t depend on women showing up for work, they just might hire more men! Way to go, feminists…
Please know that the “Women’s March” is part of international women’s day for the Communist Movement worldwide.
It is Bolshevik inspired and as such hates morality, especially Christian morality which honors the woman as wife and mother.
The American Communist Women’s March is for those who admire the barren feminst..
Rubbish!!!!!!!!
Been listening to Rush?
Why not you believe what ever the Main stream media feeds you
Thanks Dr. Excellent speech.
Rubbish such as radical gender feminist pretense that ‘Womyn make 75 cents for each Male Dollar’ (for the Same or ‘comparable’ Work) is not only garbage processed in and regurgitated out (not accounting for facts that Men tend to work longer hours and overtime, and second or third jobs too) – but defies the simple logic of how a business can afford to pay a 25% premium for Male Employees – and Stay Competitive with one using Female Employees?
Michael, for a lawyer, you seem to agree that women should be treated differently in the work place, if they belong there in the first place. The issue is equality: same pay for equal work. Two women admins in the same company with the same duties and quality of work should make the same wages. A man and a woman engineer doing the same work at the same quality should make the same wages. What often confuses the discussion is the fact that women often don’t pursue the same careers. A 25% disparity in total income between genders is an irrelevant number. Each job needs to be measured for equality. If women don’t persue engineering or law or medicine, they will make less money than men who do, but that is their choice.
Playing hooky from a moral theology job would indeed be awkward, but the doctress could’ve saved time and money by skipping Hidden Figures the movie, and its pure racial revisionist history; actually, nonhistory. Which brings to mind that sardonic punch line from The Man Who Shot Liberty Valence: “When the legend becomes fact, print the legend.” Only in the aforementioned, there wasn’t even legend.
Hymie, the story of the West Calculators is told here: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/forgotten-black-women-mathematicians-who-helped-win-wars-and-send-astronauts-space-180960393/. What your remarks suggest is that you don’t believe that there was segregation, discrimination and race separation in our country. You can’t be serious in your assertion that this revised history. Many of lived through it and continue to live through it. It is not a “legend”, but it is truth.