When you’re young and Catholic, and it’s summertime, there’s nothing quite like a bonfire.
The diocesan Office for Youth and Young Adult Ministry has collaborated with the young adult ministries in each of the deaneries, or geographical clusters of parishes, in San Diego County to organize weekly bonfires at La Jolla Shores.
The seven-week series of bonfires, which began June 9, will continue to be held every Thursday, from 7 to 9 p.m., until July 21. The events are open to all young adult Catholics, ages 18 to 39, regardless of parish affiliation.
The Youth and Young Adult Ministry Office is expecting between 50 and 100 young adults at each week’s installment.
Maricruz Flores, director of the Office for Youth and Young Adult Ministry, said each bonfire is hosted by a different deanery, which is responsible for securing the firepit location and providing the graham crackers, chocolate and marshmallows for making s’mores.
Six of the diocese’s seven deaneries – Mission, Oceanside, South Bay, El Cajon, Escondido, and Cathedral – will take turns hosting a bonfire. (Geographic distance prevents the El Centro Deanery from doing so.)
The final bonfire will be hosted by Pastoral Juvenil, the diocese’s Spanish-speaking young adult ministry. Both English- and Spanish-speakers are welcome at the event, which have a different feel than the previous bonfires. It will take the form of a praise-and-worship night, followed by a bonfire social.
The diocese is letting the individual deaneries take change of the bonfires, while pledging to provide whatever support they need.
“We want this to be an effort of the deaneries, to help strengthen the relationships between the young adults within their deaneries,” said Flores, who explained that many young adults aren’t even aware of the existence of deaneries and that there is an intermediary level of young adult community between parish and diocese.
She hopes that the bonfires also will help to spread the word about upcoming events, such as the diocese’s annual Young Adult Adoration and Mass, which will be held Aug. 14 at The Immaculata Church, and the Diocesan Young Adult Retreat, set to take place from Sept. 16 to 18 at Whispering Winds Catholic Camp in the Cuyamaca Mountains.
The bonfire series was the brainchild of Pamela Poe, associate director of the Office for Youth and Young Adult Ministry, who saw it was a way to expand the office’s outreach and promote collaboration among the diocese’s young adult groups.
“We were planning to kick off these bonfires for 2020, but then COVID changed our plans,” said Poe, who reintroduced the idea early this year. When she pitched it to young adult leaders, they were “more than enthusiastic.”
“The collaborative aspect of the bonfire gave our newly revived Deanery Young Adult Leadership team a new project to work on together,” she said, “and it is really exciting to see the many young adult groups collaborating.”
In addition to San Diego’s enviable weather and the opportunity to make new friends, Flores said bonfire attendees should also expect a “moment of prayer.” She said that the bonfire experience will include “praying together … and breaking bread – which, in this instance, will be s’mores.”
“It doesn’t have to be the entirety of the event,” she said, “but at least, it sets the tone,” she said.
Poe echoed that sentiment.
“Our events are always centered on our faith,” she said, “and so it is most appropriate that we take a moment to pause together as a community of young adults to be in the presence of God, to remind us of His love for us and that He is the reason we are all gathered together.”
For the exact location of each week’s bonfire, as well as any updates or last-minute changes, young adults should check out the Instagram page @sdcatholic.
The above comes from a June 16 posting in the Southern Cross.
What a joke that 39 is considered young adult. The reason they do that is because hardly anyone in their 20s participates, and they’ve had to increase the definition of young adults from 29 to 35 to now 39 as the same old, fewer people are the only ones attending and they’re going to age out. Next 45 will be considered the upper limit for “young adult”. Total joke.
Also, is it wise to be lighting fires in Southern California?
It’s good that they’re trying something, but over 30 is not a young adult. Sorry.
Having been involved in young adult ministry for a number of years and, many years ago when I was a young adult, helping start the longest running young adult ministry in the Bay Area, I agree with you that 39-year-olds are not young adults. The wise pastor who asked us to start it had us start it for 18 – 25 year-olds and emphasized that it was not a singles group (we had a few young married couples). We later raised the upper age limit to 30. (The diocese I was a part of back then directed that it should be 35 shortly after that). Everyone should have a place in the Church, but that doesn’t mean it should be the young adult group. No 18 or 19 year-old wants to attend a group with someone old to be their father or mother. Some of our evangelical brothers and sisters seem to have the right idea when they have college groups (for those just out of high school until about 22 or 23) and career groups (for those up to about 30 establishing themselves in their careers). A healthy parish could have men’s, women’s, singles, faith sharing, service and other groups for people, regardless of age. I love young adults and enjoyed being one myself, but many years ago I became simply an adult who took my place in the Church, without any adjective.
Tisk tisk. Near occasion of sin. Can’t they just stay home and knit?
I assume this is the gay person who got offended over the gay bar story.
Sarcasm, on the other hand, derives from Greek words that mean “tearing of the flesh.” Sarcasm is hostility disguised as humor. Just don’t.
I enjoy reading about what young Catholics are doing.
This is a song by some Franciscan University students. (Warning: Blinking images)
That song is terrible. And the vocalist is untrained.
If you don’t have something nice to say…
I guess as long as there’s no rainbow flag and it’s not in the Castro then this sort of socializing is okay for Catholics.
The music of other young Catholics-more traditional
https://www.beatus-choir.com/listen
Perhaps instead of eating s’mores they should go on a hike.